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Thursday, November 26, 2009 ' 2:03 PM Y

SO. yeah..notions of love. the other day while stoning on the bus (as usual), i thinking about how true the idea of love being merely a physical chemical reaction that our bodies have that release like euphoria (or blah wadever duno the exact chemical name thing =.=) that makes a person feel all happy. or could love be actually more of a mental thing? i mean ignore the freaky idea that we fall in love because of a dam chemical rxn =.= like wad rxn? ur BO mixed wif other ppl's BO? wth is that? =.= anwz..i still think its a mental thing. or a prettier word = a psychological thing :D i've been like reading tons of romance novels since sec 3? and read manga..so i pretty much noe love from different perspectives. err im talking bout the adult and growing youth perspective. so anwz..a few days ago i had this like EUREKA moment where i realised what if love was sth that was created by our minds? okay well..lemme see..err strt from the very beginning..

love. wad do u think love means? for me, love would be like finding the right partner. loving each other, trusting each other and in the romance novels, sacrificing stuff for each other. the fact that you cant live without each other = love. but wad would u consider the 'right partner' be? i think that as humans, we don't really need or realise wad we need unless sth bad happens. that bad thiing could be anything..ur family's poor, u have a weird complex, u went thru reallll tough times when u were younger and yada yada..all the sob stories n all..maybe thru all these bad experiences only THEN can u begin to realise wad ur looking out for in a life partner. i think thats why not everyone can find love or when they do, its all at different times. some when thier young or some when their old. i was reading this manga one day that was about this girl who was always encouraged to explore the idea of love. i mean since her dam parents were lovey dovey all the tym. n she did just that. it was a freaky and horrible manga that made me feel weird to my stomach..hmm maybe cuz she kept getting her heart broken because of illusions of love. such a bad aftertaste that manga was.. =.= ya well..ben xiao jie stepped off her dreamy love cloud for a bit reading that manga..but it got me thinking that maybe the reason why she cldnt find her 'destined' partner was cuz she was too young or that her life was pretty much smooth sailing and not troubled enuff to really noe wad she wanted in a guy. whereas in romance novels, the heroines and heroes always have a 'past' or some sort of fear which they manage to overcome after meeting the love of their life. so maybe when u actually fall in love, its only after u've gone thru loads of mental pain and torture. a period of time where love is totally out of the picture. and BOOM it suddenly smacks u rite in the eye o.o thats why they say love is unexpected. haha..

ya well..so all these thoughts above got me thinking yet again =.= about me. :D maybe im just ready to fall in love cuz life hasnt been too hard for me yet. i mean..my life is pretty much smooth sailing except a few bumps here and there to spice it all up o.o but no major thing happening. (well bad thing at least) maybe thats why im just not looking for love yet. i have no idea wad type of guy suits me or wad i really lyk in a guy except for the list of outrageous stuff that i throw out (*.*) heh..anwz. if it happens. it happens. im not gonna say i cant wait cuz its half true and half not true. but im gonna say im looking forward to seeing the world in a different light when i fall in and out of love. its an experience that i think is worth having at least once in ur life :)

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About Us~
Firstly, it's donuts cuz we love donuts? Nah, it's just a private joke, lol..We've been best friends since 2007 of our jc years in JJC

Chim May Bo
mOle, bobo
13 dec 1990

Loh Su Min
coRn, minmin, susu
5 Dec 1990


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Get into the course we want for Uni
Get into NUS
Trip to Hong Kong for shopping
above all, we want MONEY lol
May Bo: Gucci bag T.T
nice birthday presents


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COCKROCHES!
LIZARDS!

SUMIN HATES:
DURIANS!
CORN!



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Food in general
Mi fen (erm vermicelli?)
Swimming
Reading

May Bo loves:
Bitching
Colour Red
SHOES
Sour stuff
Shopping


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